Archive for December, 2006



Chips.

….That’s what I put last week’s poor weight-loss record down to.

Only half a kilo in week three – that just over one measley pound.

Anyway, at least I’m still losing – I didn’t put anything back on again. Phew!

I’m not terribly over-the-top keen when it comes to potatoes, they just aren’t one of those foods which makes me salivate, they’re just a necessity to balance up a meal in most cases.  If I do have chips I have the oven-baked variety, they’re not bad for you at all with just 4g of fat per 100g. But last week I had two occasions when I hadn’t planned dinner, and time was running out to get food quickly.

So, a small portion of chips from the chip-shop was my stop-gap on Wednesday, and then Badger treated me to dinner at TGI Fridays on Friday, and there’s not much you can eat in that place that comes without fat. If that’s what America is really like when it comes to food, I’m having no truck with the place. I would much have preferred a trip to that nice Italian on the high-street! Mmmm….

I’m not put off by this minor set-back, just a bit miffed.

Let’s see how I get on in week 4………. 

Shocking

In these enlightened days of respect and understanding, where we treasure eachother’s differences and embrace equality in our workplaces, I am absolutely shocked by the behaviour of a manager and his attitude to his staff.

The Organisation provides a number of services, one of which is providing education and training to school children. In the Schools Department there are eight employees, five of whom are educators, and spend 3 days a week in schools doing their thing. The other two days a week, they work in the Office. The office is shared by the staff of various other services, but they all contribute to the same aim, so can be regarded as colleagues. Of the 5 educators, one is the manager of the service – let’s call him Bill. One of the educators Bill manages is a fantastic lady who is an inspiring educator, who works to a very high standard, is great with the kids, is punctual, organised and positive in her attitude. She is a breath of fresh air. Lets call her Sue.

There is another special thing about Sue: she’s profoundly deaf.

Now this should make little difference to how we view Sue, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t. Considering her disability, Sue is even more of an inspirational member of staff, because she’s able to do all she does while at the same time overcoming considerable obstacles.

Last month, Bill’s manager – let’s call him Colin – called a meeting with all the staff from the open-plan office to announce that the Chief Exec had ordered a reshuffle of the office to incorporate another service within it, and that the Schools team were to lose all but two desks. Bill was on holiday at the time, and knew nothing of the move, but Sue was at the meeting.

Did Sue complain? Did she raise any concerns about the changes? She did not.

Bill came back from leave to find his desk had gone, and his stuff had been moved elsewhere. Bill went to see Colin who told him his team would be ‘hot-desking’ from a work station in the centre of the office which doesn’t have a telephone yet. Bill tried hard to explain that his team would struggle with this arrangement, and Sue would especially.

‘Well,’ said Colin,  ’she was at the meeting, and she never said anything’.

‘You do know she’s profoundly deaf, don’t you?’ asked Bill ‘You know she struggles to follow conversations when she can’t see who’s talking? Are you sure she even knew you were taking her desk?’

‘She heard. She was at the meeting.’ Said Colin, again.

The first I know of this is when Sue comes to talk to me to say she’s thinking of resgning because she can’t do her job properly. Apart from Bill, no-one in the office is speaking to her, she can’t use any of the telephones they’ve put in because they aren’t compatible with her hearing-aid, and she has no space to work. Sue says ”I don’t want to cause a fuss. I don’t want to be nuisance. I don’t want to be labelled as ’The problem Disabled Person’, but I’m struggling, and I don’t know what to do.”

These kind of things make me seethe.

I am shocked that managers like Colin who think they know about equality, who can say all the slogans and go through the motions can be so utterly ignorant about basic needs. When will people realise that being fair does not mean treating people exactly the same.

I will have it sorted by next week. I’m sure of it.  Heads will roll.

The Balance of Nature

You know that theory that when something good happens, something bad happens too – to balance the world out? Well, normally the two things don’t happen to the same person on the same day, but they did to me today!

I was called into the New Boss’ office for ‘A Word’. Now, whenever someone says they’d like ‘a word’, I immediately feel guilty and rack my brains to think what I’ve done wrong. But I needn’t have worried. The ‘Word’ was to tell me that while the New Boss had been out visiting a number of places on Friday, my name had come up a number of times in a positive light, with people generally saying how professional and helpful and knowledgeable I am. New Boss wanted to pat me on the back and say ‘well done’.

I was chuffed! People are always nice to me, but you never can tell if they’re saying nasty things about you to other people. Good to know they felt strongly enough to tell my Boss about me.

All was well.

Then, about 5pm, my Outlook reminder popped up to tell me I should have been at a meeting at 4.30. Ahhgggghhhhh!!! I couldn’t believe I’d forgotton it. I felt absolutely terrible, because its so very unlike me. I rang and grovelled, and still feel awful about it. But, the balance was redressed.

I think – as one of my staff pointed out – that the last three weeks have been absolutely mad-stressful, and its hardly surprising one tiny thing got missed.

But I don’t care. Its the principle of the thing, and something my reputation hangs on. Must be more careful.

Fridge Magnets of Doom

- no honestly! Look here.

How scary!!

Here’s the challenge:

Tell me your story of how an everyday object was/is hazardous to health….

Slowly Slowly Catchy Monkey

Just a quick Cakewatch update:

Week 2 and I’ve lost another 1.5kg, which means I’ve lost just below the half-stone mark.

As long as I can keep this up – all through Christmas, too!! – I’ll be fine.

Anyway, feeling positive and encouraged. xx

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